Letting Go to Accept Abundance

5/6/2023

Letting Go to Accept Abundance

Learning to let go is one of the hardest stages of the personal growth and development journey. It is human nature to want to hold on to what is good, and to try to control our environment to give us the things that we want. That might work if you were the exclusive force in this world - but that's not the case. The truth is that life itself is a force, or more accurately two forces. I call them Magic and Chaos.

Magic is when something desirable happens that is not linear or logical. It doesn't quite make sense by the rules of this world. This is the force behind the teachings of Law of Attraction and The Secret. I'm a pretty logical, data-driven Type A person, but I have had things happen in my life that defy logic. I have encountered and aligned with this "Magic" in my life on more than one occasion, so I know first hand that it exists.

Chaos is when something undesirable happens that is not linear or logical. Why does one person suffer, and other person gain? Why did an intoxicated driver hit my car, and not the car right behind me? Why didn't I leave the house 1 minute later? Why was my child healthy, and another child born sick? The truth is that there is a force in life that brings unexpected trauma and tragedy to us, and we can't control that force.

So, we have the two forces of life, and then our own unique life force, and these three forces make up our reality. The thing is that these forces are like air - they are streams of power. They can't be controlled or contained. This is why life is designed to be touched - not strangled.

When we hold life gently, when we touch its wonder and its suffering, we create a dance with it. This dance is what allows us to engage with life with grace, ease and flow.

In contrast, when we try to control life, or resist its flow, we create pressure and discomfort. Understanding how to use our life force to create the life we want, while at the same time allowing for life to flow, can be challenging.

Staying accepting to the present moment while at the same time aligning your vibration with that which you most desire most in the future allows for you to touch life gently while using your life force to create more of what you want.

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